
2: What Does It Take To Succeed
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Genecia Alluora: Hello and welcome to the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint show for women who love the F-word, being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence, and family. This is the extension of the main Soul Rich Woman show, where this is only ten minutes every single day and every single week. So do join in if you want to learn more about how you embrace your fears, be courageous, be brave, and own the key to unlock your financial independence. You are just an F-word a way to build a better marriage, a better life. Press freedom to have everything that you ever wanted to achieve. Remember alone you are strong. Together we are unstoppable. Let's begin. I have a free gift for you on our website. Secrets of Personal Branding. And also, how do you delegate 80% of your to do list to your assistant so that you can make money online and focus on your zone of genius. And that is available at soulrichwoman.com.
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Genecia Alluora: Hello and welcome to today's episode. I'm Genecia Alluora, founder of Soul Rich Woman, the number one leading female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia. Good to see you today. Well, I'm gonna share with you the actions that you must take to succeed. Success isn't something that can be simply be thought about or dreamt about. Success takes unrelenting and sustainable action towards your goals. In this episode, I'm going to show you how to take that action, how to reach those goals, and how to succeed in all that you do. To own and love the F-word. Being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence, and above all, family. Remember, you're just an F-word away to a better marriage, to a better relationship, to a better work opportunity, and to even a different business opportunity and a different result in your life. Now, because reasons aren't going to get you from where you are now to where you want to be, where you are now, to where you want to go, because results only come from an obsession with getting yourself to take action. Now, how many people do you know that they already know what to do, but don't do what they know?
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Genecia Alluora: So for you today, decide up front why are you doing this? Because massive action, plus certainty or clarity with effective action equals to true success. So get rewarded in public, what you practice in private. Which means when you're on stage for the one minute, is actually ten years of stage experience and hard work and practice. So today we talk about the momentum right. The momentum box. What it takes to succeed literally is propelled by this M word which is momentum, the potential to action to results and will belief. So let's draw a momentum box right now whether you have a pen and paper with you, or maybe you're driving or doing something else right now, I would like you to visualize that box. Now, put up a box right now in your mind right now and on the top left corner. I want you to imagine that word or write down that word potential. And on the right corner of the box, I want you to write down the word action. And then at the bottom right is to write down the word results. And then on the corner left, write down the word belief. Or you could do it the other way around. As long as your potential action is on the top and your results and belief is at the bottom.
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Genecia Alluora: So are we ready? We talk about potential is about what you're truly passionate about doing or what you're really good at doing. When we look at these four quadrants, it helps to bring you momentum from where you are now to where you want to be much faster. More often than not, people are delayed because people are just waiting for things to happen for them. So if you just waiting your ducks to sit in a row before you move forward, then by the time someone else built a momentum forward, you will be left behind. Think about all the brands that have built up. Spent 20-30 years to build up a brand like Tigerbalm Oil like you, and all these brands took so long and built their momentum upwards to be who they are. But just look at Carousell, in just a year, they have propelled themselves to the next level. In just the next few years, they have grown massively and globally to the next level. So when you are looking at your momentum now. What are you thinking about of doing? You need to get out of your comfort zone. You need to be out of the comfort zone before anything else. So let's take a look at your potential. What are you truly passionate about? What kind of action will you take and what kind of results do you want?
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Genecia Alluora: And what kind of belief do you have to take yourself from where you are now to where you want to be much, much faster? So potential could be something that is of your knowledge. I have a ten year stay at home mom who came to me and she gave me some health products and she said, okay, I want to sell health products. But when I looked at it, I'm like, hey! Upon deeper clarification, and of course with coaching, I realized that she loved to cook and she has got this secret recipe that nobody knows about. And plus, the fact of the matter is, she has successfully helped her husband go from type two diabetes to nearly diabetes free. And in fact, her husband's health is fully, fully stable right now. So we worked on the potential of being able to cook up very healthy dishes that can help people around the world to cut down their cholesterol, to be more, to be healthier, you know, with less salt, less oil, or even no, no salt, no sugar as well. And eventually we came up with this detox diet that is coined to her story, which is her ability to cook for a family of seven, sometimes 11, and to stabilize her husband's diabetes from type two to almost diabetes free.
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Genecia Alluora: So that is a potential. Sometimes potential doesn't come easily because it doesn't come in a single moment where you think what you're doing right now is that your potential. Sometimes it's not like that. Well, how does it look like it is sometimes the things that you're doing that you're not paid, or sometimes the things that you're doing that people keep saying that you're really good at. It may not be what you are actively aware of your passion, but what the ground people are feedback to you, what they are giving you feedback for. For example, you are really good with organizing events, but that's not your main job. That is just a side hustle or no on the side. You're just enjoying organizing women related events and you're really good at getting the numbers in. So on the ground, people will say, hey, you're really good at organizing events, right? And also, how about some of you, you know, you are employed in the 9 to 5 job, but you're really good at going online. You know, how exactly to run a webinar. You know exactly how to run a zoom call. You know how to hold masterminds or even do online summits.
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Genecia Alluora: And because of that, people say, wow, you're really good at this online thing, and people are complimenting you in a positive way by having all these little, little things that you don't even know about means that you have the potential to branch out in this area to take action on it, and therefore achieve a certain result that you might want to have other than your 9 to 5 job, other than a one stream of income. Hey, you could have multiple sources of income. Can we look at your own personal skill set and knowledge and what you could monetize eventually to go towards the path of success, or the stair ways of having where you could own and unlock the F-word, which is financial independence 10x or if you are just an F-word away to a different marriage, sorry, better marriage to the different result. Okay, so recognizing potential is important because when you recognize your potential, you will achieve your true success. And that brings me to action. What kind of action are you taking? Usually here at this point a lot of people are not taking action. They are just thinking about, okay, taking action. I will just do three different type of actions. Okay, Genecia. I'm done. No result.
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Genecia Alluora: I've done everything in my power to do the action. But you know what Tony Robbins shared, and what I've learned is that when you say you have done everything in your power to take action and you said you have only done three ways, hey, you are not serious about your potential. You are not serious about your destiny. You are not serious about your dream. Because when you say that you have done everything in your power, which means it is must be everything in your power to take the action and then go towards the results that you truly ever wanted to achieve. So the action that you want to take don't just go one way, you can go multiple ways. All right? So make sure that you really list down ten different ways, up to 20 different ways to really take action, to unleash your potential, to rise up your potential so that you can unlock the F-word of financial independence towards the path and stairways of Heaven of success where you can truly be happier, more abundant. And more secure about your future. Last but not least, coming to the actions and results.
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Genecia Alluora: So in the results quadrant, which is the one part of the quadrant, the results part really talks about where are you putting your eggs in the basket? We talk about, you know, you are the average of the five people you hang out with the most. So having the potential in action, of course, you must have developed certain results, but to achieve the results at the same time, one of the condition is to look into the average of the five people you hang out with the most. You having coffee with Sheryl Sandberg and you having time spent with Kim Kiyosaki, or are you having coffee with me? You know, so you have to decide where you stand in terms of achieving your results. And in the results is what we call the big hairy audacious goals that you want to set in. What is it that your dream is? Don't play small anymore. Stop playing small. Because if I, if you decide that you can change the world, then we need to stop ourselves from the fear of being judged.
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Genecia Alluora: And this is very real. This is very real. Super real. So put up your box in your mind right now and go towards a potential to action and the results that you want to achieve and putting people around you, supporting you, cheerleading you all the way to the end line. Because when there is like minded people involved in the space of results, there is always space for you to reach the finish line. In the next episode, I'll be sharing with you how you can use belief as a way to continue to rise up towards your path of success, to build up this momentum box, this mindset box, and something really that affects your soul. Because when a woman changes her life, her entire community benefits. I love you and looking forward to seeing you in the next episode. unstoppable. 19.8s
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Genecia Alluora: Thank you for joining me today. I would love you to connect with me on Linkedin, Facebook, or Instagram and share with me your thoughts on today's episode at Genecia Alluora. Alternatively, you can send me an email at hello@soulrichwoman.com. I have a free gift for you on our website. Secrets of personal branding and also how do you delegate 80% of your to do list to your assistant so you can make money online and focusing on your zone of genius? And that is available at soulrichwoman.com. Join the number one leading female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia, connecting more than 200,000 women across the region. Be a Soul Rich Woman. Dream to shine. Woman leader, leader activated. Alone, you are strong. Together, we are unstoppable.