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Genecia Alluora: Hi, I'm Genecia Alluora, founder of Soul Rich Woman, the number one leading female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia, supporting 1 million women to own and love the F word. Fabulous, freedom, financial independence, and happy family. Alone, you are strong. Together, we are unstoppable. So go to soulrichwoman.com. Grab your free five day online program, Money and Me, how to get anything you desire. Welcome to my show.

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Genecia Alluora: Hello, gorgeous. And thank you so much for listening to my podcast Soul Why. I really appreciate it. Make sure you're following me on social media as well. I'm @genecialluora on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and LinkedIn @genecialluora. Or find me at soulrichwoman.com and share with me your stories because I love hearing your aha moments about these episodes and it's going to be super fun. So stay connected.

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Genecia Alluora: Hey, gorgeous. Welcome back. My name is Genecia Alluora and welcome to the final step of the manifesting formula. And this is the piece that really ties everything together. Step number five is all about receiving. Now, a lot of women are not really good at the receiving part, and I think it comes down to that naturally, either because of our family, because of the people around us, because of our upbringing, because of our husbands, whatever. There are always reasons why we are taught in a certain way, our education system. We are told to give more than we receive and only when we give, and then we will receive. So we are often taught all these things that we thought are good stuff, because when we are giving, then we will receive, right? And there's even a saying around it. So it's more blessed to give than to receive. Yeah. That's right. That's what the whole world is talking about. That's what everybody is saying. Education system, our family, our business associates, whatever. So you are probably blocking abundance from the universe in big and small ways.

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Genecia Alluora: Now, how often do you feel guilty for maybe having a success in your life, because you're worried that it's going to make your best friend feel bad about herself? How many times do you feel bad or guilty for charging a client premium pricing in your business because you're worried what your peers may think of you, that you are being too money minded? How many times do you reject abundance because you think it should be given to someone else who maybe deserves it more than you deserve? Maybe you never even let your friends buy you a meal or pay for coffee. I know it sounds small, right? But from a manifesting point of view, this is freaking huge. This is a really big deal. How often do you feel guilty, lousy or bad, when you want to talk about making money, starting a side hustle, doing a business, or building your brand online, whatever that may be a kind of success, a dream, a goal. And then you say it out, and then you feel guilty because you're worried that your husband, your family, your friends or your peers, or in a certain group that people are in and saying like pointing finger and you and they're judging, you are so worried they'll judge you by saying your money minded. Why must you charge premium prices? Why must you charge for the work? Why must you do your side hustle? You're worried that they will just make comments about you and make them feel feel bad because of your success? Make them feel like you are doing more than them. So you want to play small.

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Genecia Alluora: Sounds familiar? From the manifesting point of view, that's why a lot of women are not able to receive. How good are you at even taking compliments? Like when I thank you right now, I thank you and I love you and I acknowledge you right now. You who's listening to my voice in between your years now, 1.5s I want to acknowledge you and thank you for taking this audio program and listening up to step five. How good are you even in taking compliments? Because this is a form of receiving as well. Like do you even accept it? Or you just completely deflect the compliment and go, oh, you know, it's nothing. Oh, you know, it's this and you're just going on and on about, oh no, it's not something. And you get this broken, broken record happening in your mind and in your speech constantly. Let me show you how crappy it is, how shitty is going to be, because that is a form of rejecting abundance, rejecting your own f word, fabulous freedom, financial independence, and happy family. You're like, huh? Really? Yeah. Because if you can't even receive, then how are you going to build and grow your manifesting power?

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Genecia Alluora: So you can practice receiving compliments, and that is going to help you to get adjusted to receiving abundance. So you can start from something really simple and really easy. You can say thank you instead of deflecting it. You could even say thank you I received that or thank you for noticing. So that's so nice of you for acknowledging me. Yeah, you can say that. So now I thank you for listening to this audio training program right now. Are you receiving it to me, thanking you, or are you deflecting it? So instead of deflecting, you want to receive more money? Start in small ways. Let your friend pay for a meal or coffee this time, so that you can practice receiving in every single way that you think of okay, that you can think of because it's okay to receive and not just to give all the time. It's also okay to receive a premium amount for your service that you're going to offer, whether it's coaching, whether it's your products that you're selling, it is okay to receive that. So practice in receiving in every single way. If someone says, I, I think you're awesome, how much do I have to pay you? How much is your coaching service? Whatever amount that you see, 5000, 10,000, $30,000. Say it. Practice receiving it, and maybe someone recently offered to pay you for something and you're like, oh, don't worry, don't need to pay me. Don't need to pay so much. Just a small token of appreciation is fine.

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Genecia Alluora: Or you will say this is going to be on me is a freebie. I'm not going to charge you for the opportunities I'm going to charge you for my products or services. so what have you sabotaged recently on your opportunities to make money? What have you sabotaged yourself recently? Are you aware? Now, another way of becoming an amazing and gracious receiver is to have gratitude for every single form of abundance. 1.4s On a side note, I always tell my people. That I deserve to be rich when I serve and make an impact in other people's lives. Listen closely. I deserve to be rich when I serve, when I create value in other people's lives. So notice the word deserve means that when you serve and you add value, you inspire and you create impact in people's lives, you deserve abundance. So have gratitude for every single form of abundance. So be really. I would say aware of what goes on behind your mind. So what happens if you really struggle with this one? Because I really have seen a lot of women they can't receive and they are stuck with the notion that why would somebody charge so much? Why would somebody be willing to pay premium prices? And then they will gossip. They will create negative talks, gossip among people, among their friends and say, hey, you know, that person is charging so high, and then they will judge themselves. And when it's their time to say it's time to make money, they feel really shy and embarrassed and judged upon to charge because she or themself have already created that speech, that lingo, and that expectation of I am not going to be like her.

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Genecia Alluora: I am not going to charge premium prices like her, who would pay five figures for mentorship? Who pay for a very high amount premium amount for the products that I carry. They set themselves up for not being able to receive. So what happens if you really struggle with this? Well guess what? You have to go back to step number one and declutter even more negative beliefs. Go back to step number two and refine what you're asking for. Maybe even change the group of people whom you are hanging out with, because you are already set in a certain tone and way that you feel that you do don't deserve, or you are judging someone else who is charging for the same service that you are offering, or something similar that you are selling and and you feel so negative about it. Leave the group. Walk away from people who don't lift you up towards your dreams and walk with you towards your dreams. So doing this manifesting work, the people around you is also important. So just take note of that. So go back to step number two and refine what you're asking for. Or maybe you feel like you are just a little bit lost. Don't worry. Just go back to the steps okay. Then go to step number three. Create more positive anchors. Leave the group. Maybe you're feeling frustrated and stagnant.

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Genecia Alluora: Go back to step four and take some inspired action. Meet the universe halfway. And don't just wait and sit back and wait for it to happen to you, okay? And then wait for it to happen and fall from the sky. You know what? It's not going to happen, okay? It's not going to happen. So make sure that you don't sabotage yourself. And you find that in the examples I've given you. There are always internal and external sabotages, right? Your own internal, your shiny object syndrome, your focus. You're not. You're distracted. You're not focused. And so many things happen to you. The resistance is coming up. So just be aware of that. And external factors could be the family, the friends, the peers who are already gossiping and people are already seeing things in a certain way, that there are some judgment on some people already. And because you judge other people, you also judge yourself. So just make sure you are aware of these sabotages. And like I shared with you, the way out is to be super grateful for what the universe and everything is trying to give you. So if you might be wondering, okay then what's next? Right? Genecia, what's next? How can I really master all these manifesting stuff?

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Genecia Alluora: And honestly, do you really think it's as simple as I've shared with you in the entire audio program? Well, it's kind of simple. However, you might need to dive deeper. You need to be taking the steps, right? Or you might be wondering how you can take it deeper and how you can work with me further. So what's next? Well, I'd like to introduce you to my coaching program. Okay. And also the Make It Happen Soul Rich Woman blueprint. All right. This is where the next level starts. You can work with me one on one, or you can work with me in a group class with identifying your money blocks, with identifying your negative self-talk. These are the negative beliefs, the habits, the old money stories, the people that might not serve you, or the peer group that you thought that they are your friends. So-called inverted commas friends. But actually they are in all states with you. They are in all journey with you because for you to move out and move up, you need to get out of the group that is already holding you back with their ceiling, with their gossips, with their negative part, for example, charging premium prices. And they are. And for you to feel that you need to feel the same as them, and then you will not be able to step out of your comfort zone.

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Genecia Alluora: And that's what I always see. These are all negative people, beliefs, habits or money stories that are really holding you back and keeping you small. Keeping your dreams small. Keeping your F-words small. Keeping your goals small. So if you find yourself constantly doing pro bono work under charging, over delivering and feeling burnt out, struggling to manifest the clients, struggling to get yourself seen as a leader, struggling to to really be that full potential than you think and dreamt about. I can help you through coaching and through my programs. So it is really your time to break through your income plateau and start earning the money you deserve. When you clear your money blocks and surround yourself with the correct right positive people. You are going to feel more empowered, more confident with your money and your ability to manifest more. For the last 20 years of my life, my courses, my events, my books have helped tens of thousands of women to manifest their dream lives, to earn the money they deserve by working on their money mindset, by working on owning and loving the F-word, embracing the fabulous, embracing the freedom, the financial independence, and the possibility of happy family.

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Genecia Alluora: And that Soul Rich Woman blueprint has become my flagship training program. Plus, you get lifetime access to this and support and monthly life coaching calls with me. And of course, if you do one on one with me, that is even going to be more specific and you are definitely going to break through. Seriously, the only thing that you need to do in order to be a master in creating, owning the F-word, or manifesting your goals and dreams and become a magnet to whatever that you want, is always to deal with your mindset. Deal with the mindset, specifically the money mindset. And in my Soul Rich Woman blueprint, in the community we work with 9 to 5 employees. We work with managing directors, CEOs of companies, full time female entrepreneurs, aspiring entrepreneurs, live streamers, podcasters, healers, energy workers, business coaches, bloggers. I even have authors. I even have people who are running communities themselves photographers, graphic designers. I've got someone who sells fish as well. The family deals with fish selling seafood. I have worked with yoga teachers, Pilates instructors, spiritual entrepreneurs, and so much more.

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Genecia Alluora: Now these women are creating extraordinary results in their own life. Now, whatever that result may be for them, because it is not up to me to do it for them. But it's what they see as their goals and dreams because they are making the decisions from a place of power, a place of ease and a place of freedom because they are given the permission to do so. And even though you are probably and you've probably heard of that is a day you need to have a perfect website or a better marketing plan. You need to find a rich husband. Just kidding. Okay. I mean, it's like there are so many. Things that people are seeing. But if you ask me, based on my experience and my journey, really mindset is key. Once you have that, the technical part will come right. Once you have the why, the how will come right? So earning more money is available to you right now. Making more money is available to you right now. Being rich is available to you right now. Being wealthy is available to you right now. Having more fabulous having freedom, having financial independence is available to you right now. So no matter where you are starting from or how behind you might feel either in your life or business, it's very normal to have conflicting feelings about money, conflicting feelings about your mindset. You've been conditioned from a very young age. The money is not infinite, right? It's about scarcity.

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Genecia Alluora: If you have more, you have less. And being rich makes you greedy. Being rich makes you dirty. Being wealthy means that you. You are a bad. Okay. And that you shouldn't make money from someone else. You shouldn't charge premium pricing for your coaching service, for your products, or your service, even though that thing comes easily to you. You have studied that, you've graduated from that, and you've put your experience together for that purpose. You feel that you should not charge or charge at a premium price. And if you are the only entrepreneur in your family, sometimes it does make a difference as well. Or in a friendship group that are not fully are not full entrepreneurs. They are holding you back. They already start gossiping. They are always talking about negative stuff, judging other people. You can feel like you become an unrealistic dreamer moving towards your f word. Maybe sometimes you feel like you've got nobody to relate to, or then nobody understands your desire to succeed. Or maybe you are just going through from program to program to program, and you sign up for other free program, and you're lost in all the information and you're just not sure how to move forward.

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Genecia Alluora: Or if you've never seen examples of conscious wealth, you're always seeing people born with a silver spoon going up, earning a lot of income. But you never really see real examples of people building up from scratch, and then you're going to stay stuck in guilt and shame because you have never seen examples of conscious wealth. So if you can see, you can believe it for yourself. And then that's the coolest part. So if you take action to move forward, you can create a ripple effect. You can create momentum throughout your family and community too. I'm here as a Soul Rich Woman to contribute to the revolution of soul and rich women having soul alignment to their purpose, to their passions, to their profits. And at the same time, being able to reach both on the inside, to be rich on the inside of them and express that richness through external materials or whatever they may be for them. On this planet Earth where people have the energy and ability to do so. Rise up and help the humanity to be a safe, healthy and prosperous place for everyone. That's what I'm here to do to leave a legacy through my platform Soul Rich Woman.

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Genecia Alluora: So please don't hide your entrepreneurial dreams. Don't hide your F-word. You know you want to win an award. You want to be more fabulous. You want more freedom. You want financial independence. You know, don't hide that because the environment, the people around you, the the belief, the systems and processes, the education system have said that it's wrong to have all these things or out of fear of being disliked or getting it wrong. Don't hide them because of all these fears. Please don't. Who will that serve? That will serve nobody. Hiding will not serve nobody. There are no scenarios where you are going to turn into a mean, money hungry bitch. You're like what? Making money. Wealth. Having the F-word just magnifies who you already are, and you already have. And everything that you need is just a magnifier. Learning this manifesting skill magnifies. Who are you on the inside? Right? So the perfect recipe of skills, talent, heart. To do this, you need some tools in support to help you to take everything to the next level, to uplevel your status, to get recognition in your own way, and to fulfill the inner desires that you have regarding your business and your life.

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Genecia Alluora: And of course, you are allowed to make money and inspire help people. You don't have to choose. You are allowed to do just that. And if you are ready and you've been asking for a sign or mentor to help you, then here I am. And I'm not only the kind of money mindset mentor. I'm not only that, okay? I'm also in the business side. I can teach you and guide you to from where you are now to where you want to be much, much faster. Of course, you can also do it without me. Your life will be totally fine without me as well. But if this is a nudge, this is the next step. Then you need. I invite you to take a leap of faith and explore your blocks. Explore growing your business. Explore building your personal brand, explore growing your F word or achieving your your F word, your dreams, your goals in a safe and loving environment. Well, absolutely, no pressure. Like I said, this is the time that is for you and you are ready for the next step. The magic is amplified when we all worked together, and we are here to help make those dreams a reality. And we want you to succeed too.

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Genecia Alluora: So we want to have people who want to go fast and want to go from stuck to unstoppable. And if this sounds like you, then get yourself registered. You can actually go to my Clarity call link and book my time, or just go visit the Soul Recruitment website. Then that is soulrichwoman.com. And if you'd like to speak to me on the programs that we have, which is the coaching program, one on one coaching you can go to soulrichwoman.com/clarity. So you can actually just contact me and speak with me on that. Okay. To finish this manifesting series please join me in our final mantra. Hey, this is such a great pattern, I love that. Okay. Now be ready to rewire from those negative, irritating beliefs that's holding you back. Put your hand onto your heart and repeat after me. Listen closely. This is my time and I'm ready for the next step. I love myself and I set myself free. This is my time and I'm ready for the next step. Okay, gorgeous. If you want to continue this conversation further, come and join us in the clarity call all the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint program. I can't wait to help you to create a beautiful business and life that will make you money and change the world, too. I'll see you there. Bye for now.

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Genecia Alluora: Hey gorgeous. I can help you to build your dreams. Now you can work with me in my Money Mindset coaching program and mastermind community, Soul Rich Woman. The more you surround yourself with inspiring, successful and supportive people, the more you'll feel safe to dream. Let's clear all the old stories, beliefs and sabotages that are stopping you, holding you back and making you go round and round in circles and not allowing you to create your soul rich life. Fabulous freedom, financial independence and a happy family. It's fun and practical that is soulrichwoman.com. Or simply email us at hello@soulrichwoman.com. So come and join us.