216: What to do When Your Goals Aren’t Manifesting Fast Enough
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Genecia Alluora: Hi, I'm Genecia Alluora, founder of Soul Rich Woman, the number one leading female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia supporting 1 million women to own and love the F Word, fabulous freedom, financial independence and happy family. Alone, you are strong, together, we are unstoppable. So go to soulrichwoman.com. Grab your free five day online program, Money and Me, how to get anything you desire. Welcome to my show.
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Genecia Alluora: Hello, gorgeous, and thank you so much for listening to my podcast, Soul Why. I really appreciate it. Make sure you're following me on social media as well. I'm at Genecia Alluora on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and LinkedIn at @geneciaalluora or find me at soulrichwoman.com. And share with me your stories because I love hearing your aha moments about these episodes and it's going to be super fun. So stay connected.
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Genecia Alluora: In today's episode, I want to introduce you want to talk about what to do when your goals ain't manifesting fast enough. This is all about manifesting affirmations, your money mindset as well. So hey, gorgeous, you know how frustrating it can be when you've set a big goal, but you are in that annoying gap that before you actually manifest it. It's like to go from where you are now to where you want to be much, much faster. There's a huge gap in between that you don't really know how to deal with it. So the question will be, how do you deal with that waiting period? How do you deal with that waiting time? It's like you're on a never ending wait list that you feel that can dig up stuff that frustrate you and in the end cause you to delete away that manifestation that you really wanted.
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Genecia Alluora: So today I've got some juicy tips for you. I wanted to help you to get through the next stage that when you are super impatient and seemingly ready for the next step, and yet nothing is happening. So today's here's the goal to get you through this stage. Okay. So now your goal might be something like your dream house or a soulmate. Maybe you've made a call out to the universe for your ultimate lover to appear. Maybe you're waiting on new clients or asking the universe for a new business idea. And you're like, Universe, help me out here. Maybe you want to go traveling or you want to become pregnant. It can feel so frustrating when the pieces haven't come into place yet and it feels out of your control, especially if it's something that has a knock on effect like getting pregnant, for example. And you're like, When is this baby coming in so I can start planning my year?
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Genecia Alluora: When is this cows coming so I know that when things are going to unfold so that you can pack and organize your mortgage? When am I going to get the next million dollars? And you're like, it's super frustrating. I totally get it and I understand what it feels like. I've got some tips for you on how you can feel better about this place in limbo where you're like, neither here nor there that you are in right now. So your six steps to money manifesting success is number one, believe in divine timing. Number two, use the extra time to prepare. Number three, embrace small shifts. Number four, get clearer on what you want. Number five, practice patience. Number six, fill in the manifesting gaps like building bridges.
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Genecia Alluora: So let's take a look at each money manifesting success steps in more in-depth. Number one, believe in divine timing. You have to believe that there's a bigger reason why your goal isn't manifesting yet or exactly to your time frame. I mean, how could ever this be delayed, right? Well, maybe it's just because of timing. The universe is like, you're not quite ready yet, and if you want to get it now, you have to go to do some things. So the universe is telling you saying you, hey, you're just quite not ready yet, and if you want to get it right now, it's going to cause some upset and drama in your life. It could be a big financial drama that you don't need now, like accidentally falling in love with a money pit house, or maybe your health is not quite ready for that gold to manifest yet.
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Genecia Alluora: You probably don't have all your things lined up or your stars line up as much as you should. If you're really honest about it, it's your goal 100 % in your best interest right now. If the universe pushes through and gets you to the front line, it could cause some yucky, rough, yucky shit stuff that you don't really intend to happen. Sometimes you just have to believe that the universe has got my back. It's going to happen at the right time and the right place for my highest good. The universe has got your back and it's going to happen at the right time and the right place for your highest good.
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Genecia Alluora: It may not happen in the time frame that you necessarily want it to happen in, but there could be a very good reason for that. Hopefully, that gives you some reassurance, but also a feeling of no matter what happens, I'm going to be taken care of here. Believe in divine timing. Number two, use the extra time to prepare. Hey, you can spend this time in limbo, neither here nor there to prepare for your goals when it suddenly manifests. As the saying goes, when the master appears, when the master appears when the student is ready. For example, you are incredibly impatient about getting pregnant. Well, while you are waiting for it to manifest, get prepared as if the baby is coming soon.
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Genecia Alluora: You might think, I really need to make changes or some changes in the way that I work so my business won't go bust. So spend this time looking at what you could delegate if you can get pregnant in the next year, you had less time in your business. Get really clear on how to baby proof your business. So there are things that you need to work on in balancing your time and your energy. Now, I spent about 16 hours a day live streaming, and I don't have that much time in my online business, especially during this season when I'm married to TikTok live streaming. I'm working very closely with the management of TikTok here in Singapore.
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Genecia Alluora: So working on projects and I'm I have got no time to do my automation in my doing coaching and mentoring part. So I already started to plan to automate my business in terms of my passive income, making sure all my emails are all still sending out on automation. So the automation part is really super important that has helping me, even though I'm live streaming, I'm married to TikTok for the social e-commerce part right now as I'm building the Aluora beauty skincare brand at this moment. It really helped me while I was impatiently waiting for that both things to take off. That means even my beauty business to take off as well. So really kind of having that structure and processes in place. So prepare now to make your life easier.
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Genecia Alluora: When you are giving the universe goal signals and taking obstacles out of the way, things might manifest much quicker than you think. Whenever we wanted to move house, we start packing, we start decluttering, we are ready. We start cleaning up our life to make it easy for the universe to say, Okay, she's ready. Let's go. So how can you prepare to manifest your goals quicker? Number one, declutter. Make energetic room for something new to emerge. Clearing out your calendar, getting rid of physical stuff. Number two, get practical. Lining up things that need to happen like financing or contracts. Number three, release. Let go of anything that is in the way, such as fears, beliefs, etc. So it is important to manifest your goals quicker by preparation.
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Genecia Alluora: Number three, embrace the small shifts. You might be asking for a big change or big life change, but actually a small shift might be better right now. For example, if you want to buy a house, you know that the timing isn't right for you. You could renovate or make some improvements in your current house so you feel good about where you are right now. If you want to lose weight and feel more confident, go shopping for the body you have right now. Basically feel good with what you have right now, whether it's in a house, your business, your body, because this one serves two purposes.
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Genecia Alluora: Number one, you feel good. When you feel good, things manifest much quicker. Number two, you manifest from a place of gratitude, from a place of gratitude of lack. You might realize that making shifts, a few shifts is enough, but it's easier to manifest from a place of abundance. Plus it feels really good. Either way, you still can get the result you want, which is cool. Number four, get clearer on what you want. This neither or here place is a great opportunity to refine your goals. You might get on pinterest to go to open homes for inspections if you're looking out for your dream house. It's so powerful to practice in the real world. Or you can actually go on to property guru from Singapore to go check out the latest properties that you want and put them out there and look at the houses that you want as though you already have them.
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Genecia Alluora: Actually go out and sit on your dream couch, even if you want to buy that couch for the home. So you might realize that, hey, this is actually not that comfortable. I might want something else. Or just go test drive your dream car. The practice runs help you to get clearer on what you really want. Maybe the universe hasn't given it to you because you are really just unclear and you're like, Just send me what you think I'll like. Kind of like asking the waitress and saying, Hey, just send me whatever that's best selling on the house, or whatever you think suits me, or whatever that looks like it fits me. And the universe be like, No, we need you to specify and get specific. Hey, can you get clear?
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Genecia Alluora: Can we have clarity and get clear on your things that you want? So get really clear on what you want by rehearsing for your dream life. Try it out and see. Believe me, it works. Number five, practice patience. Breathe in, breathe out. Get out of the mindset that everything has to happen at once. Life is going to unfold for your highest good. There's a right time for everything. There's a time for you to write more books. There's a time for you to go traveling. You don't have to gem every experience of life into a very short period of time. Now, this is the hardest one for me because I'm actually quite impatient.
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Genecia Alluora: I'm like, Hey, can I have it now? Can I go travel and do TikTok live streaming and do my online business and do this and that all at the same time, write my books? I want it now, like now, today, immediately. But sometimes the message from the universe is like, you can do it all, but you don't have to do everything at once. There's time for things to unfold. Number six, fill in the manifesting gaps. Sometimes you are really missing the obvious manifesting steps. You're trying to jump from point A to point B without building the in between steps, like, I want to make a million dollars, but you can't be making your first million dollars without making the first dollar or first $1,000 or the first $100,000, isn't it?
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Genecia Alluora: So if you're trying to achieve your goals, but you got to focus on the decluttering part, you could be sending mixed signals to the universe. So you can follow my five steps for manifesting any big dreams or goals that you have right now. I do this every single time because I have something big that I'm trying to manifest. I go through the steps again because it's really easy to miss out a few things. You can go check out my online course as well as soulrichwoman.com or in the show notes as well. You can be like, Hey, dude, where's my stuff? Hey, universe, where's my things? And the universe be like, Hey, we don't know what you want. You've missed some steps out there.
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Genecia Alluora: So the universe will reply you by not giving the things that you want when you don't have the gaps that has been filled. So get clearer when you have clarity, the universe moves quickly. So if you want more manifesting help, you know what? You can check me out or just write to me at hello@soulrichwoman.com. Well, it's your time and you are ready for the next step.
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