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Genecia Alluora: Hello, gorgeous. Welcome to this episode. Now, today, I want to talk about the love affair with Money. Alright? Okay, let's put it this way.

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Genecia Alluora: Your relationship with money easier. Not affair, but relationship. Okay? So in this program, we also talk about receiving. Because honestly, being able to make more money is also mostly about allowing yourself to receive more freedom, more fabulous, more pleasure, more abundance, more clients, and more happiness in your life.

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Genecia Alluora: It's all related. Yes. It's all about learning to lean into the support that money wants to give you. Yes, you nobody. Nobody, nobody but you, right?

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Genecia Alluora: Imagine that Money wants to co-create your dreams with you. To help you pay for everything on your dream board, to help you fund everything on your dreams, to travel, to help you to support your desires to change the world and Money to take care of you. And seriously, if you think of Money as a person, wouldn't Money want to be in a relationship with you rather than some of the rich, greedy people in the world? So today, we are defining your relationship with Money and allowing yourself to receive all the gifts of being in love with each other. You and Money can be together as one and you can go forth and do amazing things together.

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Genecia Alluora: But first, I want you to get really clear on how your relationship has been. Because it might have been one that you have been neglecting or you felt like money had abandoned and rejected you. Maybe you think that money doesn't care about you at all. But don't worry. Your relationship can be saved.

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Genecia Alluora: And in fact, you can turn this one around to be one of your best relationships, best love affairs of your life. Money can turn into a loving and nurturing partner. You can have a mutually respectful relationship. However, I want you to think for a second about your relationship with Money. For a few weeks now, you have been forgiving tapping, digging through the layers of the tissue paper of the bottomless tissue paper box.

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Genecia Alluora: Or you have been peeling through the layers of the Money onion. How would you describe you treated Money before? How would you describe your relationship with Money before? Was it like you have some judgment? Was it that you hated money?

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Genecia Alluora: You didn't really like money, you don't care about money, you neglected the money? Were you treating money as a necessary evil, but basically just tolerating or resenting its importance in your life? Did you find that it was loving? Was it fun? Was it nurturing?

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Genecia Alluora: Was it abusive? I know, right? But it's so true. If you were to explore this part of the relationship. How do you perceive Money's relationship with you? Did you find Money to be elusive?

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Genecia Alluora: Stingy? Or was it Money that made you feel desperate, like always need to beg other people? Or you were chasing this crappy, shitty boyfriend who was totally don't even care about you? You know what? I've been there.

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Genecia Alluora: You see, there comes a time in every woman's life when you get sick of some weird, dysfunctional, broken relationships and you realize you just want somebody different and maybe something healthier. Maybe you realize that some of your friends are energy vampires or that you have been attracted to bad boys and it's okay to choose the nice guy now. It's okay to be happy and in love. It's okay to have healthy relationships and you are worth it. So I'm telling you this.

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Genecia Alluora: It's okay to have a great love affair with money. It doesn't make you greedy. It doesn't make you money face. It doesn't make you a bitch. It doesn't make you someone who is just all about money and without a soul.

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Genecia Alluora: It just means that you recognize money as a tool, that it can be used for good or bad in the world. And you finally decided that it's your time because you are one of those who can use money in beautiful ways, in loving ways, in ways that you enrich your own family to support causes that are important to you, too. Do you think that if you become richer, you'll be this old money phase woman? Not possible. So you have to stop thinking of money as the enemy or just something you have to deal with.

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Genecia Alluora: Now, think of money as your loyal companion. Like, loyal psychic loyal who will do anything for you. So we want to explore further so that we can take your relationship with money to the next level. What kind of partner to money are you? Callous, caring? Nurturing? Dismissive? Disdainful? Ungrateful?

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Genecia Alluora: Don't worry. No matter what, you can totally change your relationship right now. So first up, do you need to make apologies to your money? Do you need to say sorry to your money? I know this sounds weird and stupid and ridiculous, right? Genesia, why would you ask me to say sorry to my money?

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Genecia Alluora: But think of it as your money, as though it was a real person. Like, for example, maybe like sorry for judging you, which is money as evil. Sorry for judging you means that judging you to be greedy. Sorry for not taking care of you. I don't care about you.

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Genecia Alluora: I just don't even look at you. I don't even look at my numbers. Or sorry, forgive me for not allowing you into my life, for pushing you away. Second, it's time for you to create a new relationship with money going forward. And to inspire you, I want you to think about the best relationship that you have seen. It's kind of like your favorite love story.

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Genecia Alluora: If you were to pick your most romantic movie or your best movie relationship, what could it be? Which movie would that be from? Any Korean drama? Any Cantonese drama? Any movies from anywhere. For example, one of my favorite is Matt Ryan and Tom Hanks in Sleepless in Seattle.

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Genecia Alluora: Or you've got male. The other one. Is any couples in love actually? That is one of my favorite, actually. And that's how I want you to feel about money.

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Genecia Alluora: Because when you are able to identify a relationship and think about how your relationship with your money can be, for example, stable, trustworthy, and loving or maybe you want to feel sexy, stimulated, and excited, you got to describe the kind of relationship you like to have with money. It doesn't just appear and TADA and you just think, okay, I'm in relationship money. You need to go through that journey of getting to know you better. Then you need to take the money and then get to, you know, kind of get to know the money better and build that relationship right.

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Genecia Alluora: So imagine that if you had that relationship with money and that money love you unconditionally. No matter if you worked very hard for it or made it really easily doing something that you love. What if money stay around and create a great stability for you? So you need to describe the relationship right now. Like, do you want stable, trustworthy, and loving relationship?

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Genecia Alluora: You want exciting, sexy, and stimulating. You want fun, natural, and enduring? You want romantic, respectful, and supportive? Well, describe that relationship.

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Genecia Alluora: So what if money helped you with all the things you want to do in the world and the things that you want to support? Imagine what it would be like to have that kind of relationship with money. It's totally possible for you, if you are willing to receive, you're willing to lean into the support of money without guilt, without worry. And that's not going to make you a bad person at all. In fact, it's going to open new doors, new beginning, new era, the new horizon for a new relationship with money.

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Genecia Alluora: And it's going to be a really healthy one. And it's going to be a start of something huge in your life and in your business. Think about that. Next, you're going to combine love and money, right? Now, describe what your relationship with money look like?

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Genecia Alluora: How would your business look like? How would you feel spending money? How would you show up in the relationship? How would you feel every day? So kind of combining both love and money at the same time.

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Genecia Alluora: So basically describing your relationship with money will be like how your business will be like, how do you feel spending money showing up in the relationship? How would you feel every single day?

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Genecia Alluora: You're probably laughing at this point, right? You're like thinking, what is this crazy woman talking about? Why she keep talking about relationship with money? But you know what? It's okay, totally for you to have a transformed relationship with money.

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Genecia Alluora: You are allowed to feel taken care of and supported. And you also have to take up the responsibility for the relationship. You can't just wait for money to come and blame the money all the time or resent the money and then expect it to take care of you, to take care of your dreams, to take care of stuff in your life. So it's not going to happen if you just leave it alone, right? So remember, this is your time and you are ready for a new relationship with money.

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Genecia Alluora: Only with that you will be able to have one of the most intimate and enduring relationships of your life. And you can always fall in love with money again. It's a two way relationship.

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All right, my dear, I hope you enjoyed this episode and I hope that through this, you will have a love affair with money. Sending you my love, and I'll speak to you soon. Bye for now.