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Genecia Alluora: Hey, gorgeous. Welcome back to this episode. In this episode, I will discuss about what other people's money blocks that could happen that leads to holding you back to achieve and own your F word. Fabulous freedom, financial independence and a happy family. Most of your money blocks revolve around totally made up stories and all beliefs around what you're allowed to be, do and have.

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Genecia Alluora: You also have a story about how your income affects the important people in your life. When you experience resistance around the new money goal, you have got to ask yourself these questions.One, how will this affect the people in my life? Two, who will be threatened by my success? Three, what's the worst that could happen? Four, what can I clear and release?

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Genecia Alluora: List everything that you could think of and even if you feel silly, stupid, funny, to say it out loud, you don't really have to believe it. You are just giving yourself permission to clear all your unfounded perceptions around what could happen when you are rich. It's really healthy to articulate your worst fears so that you can walk through them. Remember when you dig deep and you're aware, that's when we can clear them and clean it all out.

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Genecia Alluora: I'm going to give you four categories where there could be examples of false perceptions appearing real, all right? So that you can clear them as well and be aware of it. Of these few examples I'm going to give to you, the first category is partner. I worry about overshadowing and outshining my partner. More money would create an imbalance of power.

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Genecia Alluora: There could be power struggle in the relationship. Money could lead to fights, problems and arguments. I'll take away his role as provider. Parents, earning more than my parents is disrespectful to their hard work. My parents would be ashamed or embarrassed that I earn more than them.

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Genecia Alluora: It could make them feel bad about themselves. They could judge me and how I make my money. Why should I have it easy when they have worked hard all their lives. Friends and family, they will think I am a stuck up snobbish woman. They will feel jealous and bad about themselves. It would affect our friendship.

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Genecia Alluora: It would put us in a different social class. I will feel guilty that I earn more doing something that I love and they don't. I will feel bad about myself because I am able to charge premium prices for my products and services and they don't. They have real jobs and I just play around in my business. Mentors and coaches. It's disrespectful to earn more than them. I cannot bypass their success. I feel bad when I outshine them. So gorgeous. Are you unconsciously holding yourself back to spare each and every single one of their feelings?

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Genecia Alluora: You have to give yourself permission to earn more because you are no longer afraid of the self perceived consequences of being rich. The question will be now what Genesia? Now that I know okay these categories and these perceptions they have created. For each story and fear, I want you to ask yourself. Is this true? Would they really feel this way? Or is it a story I'm making up?

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Genecia Alluora: How am I using this story to hold myself back? How is this story affecting my income? How is this story serving me or benefiting me? The truth of the matter is, my dear, you have to take responsibility for the story that you are creating. To solve this is also to EFT your fears.

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Genecia Alluora: Go through emotion freedom technique. Start with a very generic script and then get more specific with your actual fears. Even though I'm holding myself back for other people in my life, I deeply and completely love and accept myself. Even though I am overshadowing my father, I deeply and completely love and accept myself. Even though I make my brother feel bad about himself because I earn so much, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

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Genecia Alluora: Even though my friends think I'm a snobbish rich woman, I deeply and completely love and accept myself. Even though my friends think I am a stuck up bitch, I deeply and completely love and accept myself. Finally, nobody is holding you back from making more money. It's just your perception and absolutely not your responsibility how your income will make other people feel.

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Genecia Alluora: Nobody can hold you back. It's safe for you to shine brightly like a diamond. So here are some questions that I get asked when we talk about this aspect of manifesting and clearing your money blocks and really owning and loving your F word because you have created stories that is holding you back. So one of the questions I get often is I can't think of anyone, what now? Okay, it's not really about other people at all, and it's not necessarily true.

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Genecia Alluora: It's about your fear and your perception of who possibly be negatively affected by you living your F word, who's could possibly be negative affected by you being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence, and happy family. Play around with it. And if you truly cannot think of anyone else, don't worry about it. Maybe this exercise is not going to resonate with you or don't resonate with you.

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Genecia Alluora: Another question I get often is I'm really worried about disrespecting my parents. What should I do? Okay, I totally identify with this question. How can you reframe this so that it's a positive? What would you like to do for your parents when you earn money? Most of the time they will be so proud of you and you are making give a story that you are disrespecting them. Plus they don't even need to know all the tiny, any weeny details of your income and business. When they ask you how's your business going or how much money you're making, just say it's going great. Thanks.

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Genecia Alluora: Another question I get is I come from a very small country, a small town, and I'm worried that what they will think about me. Well, I understand. I don't come from a wealthy family or rich family background. I had to support myself through school since I was 14 years old and I've been working for almost 20 years of my life. So honestly, there might be some potentially awkward moments in your future as you progress and you start to own and love more of your F word. But with the support of community and myself, you will be able to deal with it. Sometimes there is a sense of being disloyal to your family because like for me, because I'm Asian, right, we'd want to disrespect and being disloyal to my family members, to my father. However, you have to reframe that.

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Genecia Alluora:You couldn't be and can be a massive inspiration and role model to others and you could be one of the first in your family to make a difference in other people's lives. And like I said, you can be a massive inspiration to other people by solving other people's problems.

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Genecia Alluora: So don't be afraid to create your own F word, fabulous freedom, financial independence, any happy family. Another question I get is I really did have a negative reaction from someone. What now?

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Genecia Alluora: Okay, this is very common and although it sucks and it hurts sometimes and it's a lot and you can't sleep over it, you can't really get over the situation. You can't use this as an excuse to hold yourself back from creating your income, your F word, which is fabulous freedom, financial independence and happy family. Some of your friendships will grow and change as you evolve and that's okay. Some of your peers, you need to break out of these peers because they have been gossiping and they have been really negative. And because you have been charging premium and you feel guilty, you worry about them. They actually have a negative reaction because they will think that you become snobbish or whatever reasons that they have created from that situation that you have accepted who you are and chased and you have grown and embraced your F word.

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Genecia Alluora: You evolve. Just remember that and that's okay. So that's why a new community for you, a new mentor, coach for you is to support you on this journey. All right? So it's okay that you evolve and people change and you need to have a new group of friends and yeah, that's completely fine.

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Genecia Alluora: Because when these people have a negative reaction about your success, remember, it's about them and it's never about you. Okay? So, my dear, whatever that is to happen has happened. And whatever will happen is in your hands. Remember, nobody can hold you back. You are a leader, you are a woman of influence. You are a person with power that is in your hands and it's safe for you to shine brightly like a diamond.

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Genecia Alluora: This is your time and you are ready for the next step. I love you and send you my love. And I'm walking with you, holding your hands on this journey. I look forward to see you in the next episode. Bye for now.