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Genecia Alluora: I believe we can change the world, but that first, we've got to stop living in fear of being judged for who we are. Hi, I'm Genecia Alluora, founder of the number one leading female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia, supporting 1 million women to own and love the F word. Being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and family. With a challenge to women everywhere to stop talking themselves out of their dreams. So why? Secrets of the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint identifies the excuses to let go of, the behaviors to adopt, and the skills to acquire on the path to growth, confidence, and believing in yourself to be recognized as a leader online, get clients online, and to have more impact on the world.

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Genecia Alluora: Stop believing the lies about who you are so you can become who you were meant to be. You are just an F word away from the life you want, the marriage you want, the family that you want is going to be fueled by the business and life you build. Join me, be a Soul Rich Woman. Alone we are strong. Together, we are unstoppable. Welcome to the show. I have a free gift for you. Go download secrets of personal branding. And how do you delegate 80% of your to do list so that you can make make money online while focusing on your zone of genius? Go to soulrichwoman.com.

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Genecia Alluora: Hello and welcome to today's episode. I'm so glad you are checking out today's sharing How I Found Myself esteem once again by doing Healing work. Now I'm really very blessed. In 2006, I won Miss Singapore Universe. I was placed runner up and then later on I competed again in Miss Singapore International and I won the main title, which means I got number one and I represented Singapore in Japan and China. So it was during this time that my horizons opened up. It was during this time that my life was transformed because it was once in a lifetime opportunity knowing that I didn't have money for travel, I didn't have a lot of, you know, chances because of my socioeconomic background. And I'm truly blessed to have friends who encouraged me to join the beauty pageant right in the first place. I didn't believe in myself. It was them who signed me up. And I'm not rich, you know. And I thought that I'm sure I'm not going to win. But with their encouragement and, you know, with really good friends who give me moral support throughout the entire journey, well, I made it. So yes, friends are very important. Like I said, you know, it's not about the quantity, but quality of friends. Okay.

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Genecia Alluora: So remember that. So when I won Missing a Pearl, I had a lot of opportunities to be ambassadors of I had been brand ambassadors for huge beauty brands like L'Oreal, SC2 and even done advertisements for McDonald's and many more. So my life really, really was transformed. And one of the biggest, biggest things was I was an ambassador for a company and they introduced me to kind of like healing courses that have never, ever done my entire life. I don't even know what that means besides my own learning. And that's something that I've heard before, was by Louise Hay. Right. You can heal your life. You know, she's probably the only person that I know that I know that is impacted my life. You know, talking about affirmations, transforming my prosperity mindset, things like that, unleashing the power within me. Well, that was the only kind of healing work that I thought that was possible. But I got introduced to this program that's called Psychology of Vision. It was founded by Dr. Chuck Spezzano and Linzy Spezzano. And it was really an eye opener where I did, you know, really deeper in a healing, healing work beyond just telling yourself affirmations, but going deeper within and, you know, looking into my mindset, you know, how to change your mind and change the world.

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Genecia Alluora: Now, anyway, I'm just going to share with you the book by Dr. Chack Pezeno. If you were to listen to this episode right now, there's this book I would like to recommend you is 50 Ways to Change Your Mind and Change the World by Dr. Chuck Spezzano. Right. Search him and go grab the books. I think it really transformed the way I do my things and do my life literally. So I was introduced to this program in Taiwan before it was in Singapore and I had to travel to Taiwan to do the the courses. It was like four days, three days, ten days, 12 days. And I literally took out some parts of my savings and invested in myself to continue education. So some parts of it was sponsored at the beginning, but later part, I continued my education in myself and I discovered that it is a lot of junk in our life, a lot of decisions that we made about ourselves that are not true. And whatever that we think of on the inside about ourselves, reflect on the outside.

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Genecia Alluora: So that gave me a chance to look into my inner world, how I was framing myself to sabotage myself, how, you know, I should be unlocking all these negative vibes and turning them into positive vibes by three key principles. First, loving myself, two forgiving myself, three embracing the gifts that really the God or the universe has called me upon to this planet Earth. So by receiving these three concepts during the healing process, I also move forward to do a lot more of other types of healing work. Like, for example, I went to do family consultation and, you know, understanding the family dynamics and healing my dynamics within my own family as well. So I find that life is like a box of tissue paper. It's never ending, even up to today. Fast forward, I'm still doing my inner healing work, and that is my fundamental daily routine that I do that I kind of like love myself, I acknowledge myself, I, I forgive myself and I treat myself literally every single time I have some awareness of what's going on. So what you can do is you can take a notebook, okay? And always, you know, get ready of all those side noises that you have, you know, just document it down and then address it there and there.

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Genecia Alluora: So, yeah, so healing work really opened up my life and transformed my life. So I want to encourage you to to to take a step forward and say, what are some of the things you can do for yourself? So I open up my mind to inner healing work, and later on I went on to also do NLP, neuro neuro linguistic programming. I want to do timeline therapy as a certification, as a coach, and also hypnotherapy timeline therapy, NLP. These are some of the other things that I did, so I never stopped my inner healing work, and I find that it's a major part of anybody's journey. Really anybody's journey. So for you, who has not started or have stopped maybe for months now, years now. And you hear today's episode, it's probably time for you to restart again. So first thing first is go look out for the book by Dr. Chuck Spezzano, 50 Ways to Change Your Mind and Change the World. Number two, another author that I really look up to and her work has transformed my life as well in the earlier stages. It's by Louise Hay. Louise Hay. So get started, you know, go and search their books and really get started once again. And if you'd like to attend any more courses, well, the next one you can look into is, like I said, psychology of vision. Another program I would recommend is Money And You.

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Genecia Alluora: So in a healing work has opened up my life, and I would like you to do the same. And that's why I'm able to be happy. And ya, I'm actually very contented and very happy with my life. And I know that whatever that's happened is never about me anymore. It's about the other party. Okay, that one I will talk about share more for another day. But what I'm trying to say is it's no, I have really kind of like live and reach a point where I know that there are things I can be in control of and whatever I'm not in control of sometimes is never about me. Right? So how can you kind of like transform your own mindset to know that? You don't have to be right. You just need to choose to be happy. And they are like principles of like healing concepts that you can actually explore. Okay, so go get the books. Alright, I want to just kind of like overwhelm you with so many different other things. I will share more as we go along as you join me in newer episodes, but at least today you know that, hey, I too have come a long way. I also go through a lot of inner work and even now as a successful entrepreneur. Leading 200,000 women across the region. Moving to 1 million women. I, too, kept doing my inner healing work. Never give up because life is like a box of tissue paper. It just keeps going and just keeps going. And your life will only get better. Okay. I love you and speak to you soon. Bye for now.

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Genecia Alluora: Thank you for joining me today. I would love you to connect with me on Linkedin, Facebook, or Instagram and share with me your thoughts on today's episode at Genecia Alluora. Alternatively, you can send me an email at hello@soulrichwoman.com. I have a free gift for you on our website. Secrets of personal branding and also how do you delegate 80% of your to do list to your assistant so you can make money online and focusing on your zone of genius? And that is available at soulrichwoman.com. Join the number one leading female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia, connecting more than 200,000 women across the region. Be a Soul Rich Woman. Dream to shine. Woman leader, leader activated. Alone, you are strong. Together, we are unstoppable.