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Genecia Alluora: I believe we can change the world, but that first, we've got to stop living in fear of being judged for who we are. Hi, I'm Genecia Alluora, founder of the number one leading female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia, supporting 1 million women to own and love the F word. Being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and family. With a challenge to women everywhere to stop talking themselves out of their dreams. So why? Secrets of the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint identifies the excuses to let go of, the behaviors to adopt, and the skills to acquire on the path to growth, confidence, and believing in yourself to be recognized as a leader online, get clients online, and to have more impact on the world.

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Genecia Alluora: Stop believing the lies about who you are so you can become who you were meant to be. You are just an F word away from the life you want, the marriage you want, the family that you want is going to be fueled by the business and life you build. Join me, be a Soul Rich Woman. Alone we are strong. Together, we are unstoppable. Welcome to the show.

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Genecia Alluora: Hello and welcome to today's episode. I want to be sharing with you how I built a community and my struggles to becoming an instant tribe leader. So my struggles to build a community is very real, right? First and foremost, a community means you need to grow the women in the community. First, they must love and want to be a part of you too. They must have stickiness within a community. Stickiness means that you know they are sticking around and not join and go. And third and foremost, you want to build a community that is sustainable. And that was the biggest thing I had to overcome, which was my own limiting belief of I don't deserve to be paid. I should just do it for free. Helping other women means helping them for free. Then the question I asked myself, why do we pay male mentors? Why do we pay guys, coaches? You know, men. Teachers, consultants. Why are we paying all these people? And when we women say we want to help somebody, our values suddenly drop to the ground and down to hell, literally like -0, you know? So I struggled building a community called Soul Rich Woman.

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Genecia Alluora: And first was the free helping through the weekly webinars. And of course, along the way, many of the women joined my business. That means they joined. They wanted me to help them to start their business online or bring their business online. So that was how I started doing consulting work and mentorship as well to help to bring their business online by looking at their online presence. What kind of messaging and of course, being recognized as a brand that you don't have to wait like tigerbalm. You need to build 30, 40, 50 years like the X oil. You know, you have to build 60 years. You don't have to be like you build another 30, 40 years. You don't need that long to be visible online. So I was helping them to shortcut their success in return for my giving value away for free. Giving high value content away for free. So it did convert as I started to rise up as an instant tribe leader. And building a community was not easy because, you know, women, of course, have their choices. They come and go. And of course, some of them who sometimes will also gossip about you and say, ah, you know, you are a community that only pay and pay.

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Genecia Alluora: But actually that's not true. We have more than 3000 episodes of free content out there on Facebook, on Instagram, on a website. But it is these ignorant women whom I do not want to serve. So it took me a while to fine tune whom I want to serve. So I set up a table of the women I want to support in the community and women I do not want in the community. It sounds harsh, but you know what? By doing so, we then can give our talents and give things to the right women who really wants our support in the right manner. Because when like minded people come together, there is power and strength. So by choosing whom we serve in the community definitely did help the community to grow. And because of that, we multiplied. We grew. Our numbers grew. The number of countries we were in grew. And like I said, results show. So what I did was I wrote down. We actually we have four core values in Soul Rich Woman. First, no gossiping to ask clarifying questions. Three, play, win, win. Together we win. Four, no judgment because you never know until you walk a mile in the other person's shoes. By this I just four of the many that I have in our core values and the people, women that we want to help. And by stating all these values out and listing them out and consistently working our messaging, working our offers and values. Be in love with the people you serve.

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Genecia Alluora: Don't be in love with the product that you create. That's the other thing I've learnt. Be in love with the people you serve and not in the products that you create. And because I knew the women I want to serve. I was in love with them because of that we then created the products that could serve these women, and that's how we grew. The last thing was stickiness and of course, having a sustainable model. It was hard to overcome my mind set. Really difficult because I really just want to help them because success is just one step away. They are just one F-word away to unlocking their financial independence. And then I became so busy, so busy, I was married to busyness instead of my business. I was married to busyness. Because I was undervaluing myself my time by giving myself too freely away. And then because of that, I wasn't able to be productive in the way I serve my women. In the end, I decided to structure my business model to be sustainable by giving them this value system or value letter system, which I'll be covering later in the later topics. How I leveraged on value ladder system to build up a sustainable business model that could help other women allow me to support other women worldwide and be a happy woman.

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Genecia Alluora: At the same time, because we can have an own F-word, we can have it all. Being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and family. Because of this transition and breaking through of my mindset that women should help women for free. I was able to grow the community above and beyond my wildest dreams. And because of my this knowledge, I was able to grow and help other women to build up their instant tribe leader titles, to help them to build their own community. And one of my success stories is the Women of Courage Community. Lillian came to me, lost and confused. I guide her completely using the Soul Rich Woman blueprint to turn her mess into a message to turn her offline into online strategy so that she can give value and help other women to be courageous and be brave. Because of this, she became a speaker on 25 platforms in five countries in just 12 months. With my mentorship, she was able to grow Women of Courage from one member to a few hundred members in just one year.

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Genecia Alluora: Today, she has celebrated her first anniversary, and I'm so proud of her. Lillian, you have done so well and made me so proud as your mentor. So, girl, when you're listening to other side, on the other side, when someone else is successful, when a woman is successful, it doesn't mean that you are losing. It simply means that there is hope in their dreams, in your dreams right now. And we want to help you to succeed. So check out the Soul Rich Woman blueprint and find out how it can help you to build a community to become an instant tribe leader so that you are shortcut your success and grow your community in the right way. I hope you enjoyed today's sharing and I look forward to hearing you and seeing you in the next episode.

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Genecia Alluora: Thank you for joining me today. I would love you to connect with me on Linkedin, Facebook, or Instagram and share with me your thoughts on today's episode at Genecia Alluora. Alternatively, you can send me an email at hello@soulrichwoman.com. I have a free gift for you on our website. Secrets of personal branding and also how do you delegate 80% of your to do list to your assistant so you can make money online and focusing on your zone of genius? And that is available at soulrichwoman.com. Join the number one leading female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia, connecting more than 200,000 women across the region. Be a Soul Rich Woman. Dream to shine. Woman leader, leader activated. Alone, you are strong. Together, we are unstoppable.